Buzz I Am A Gender Non-Conforming Parent 1 year ago Prev Article Next Article FacebookTwitterredditPinterest “I’m definitely aware of being his baba.” Check out more awesome videos at BuzzFeedVideo! http://bit.ly/YTbuzzfeedvideo GET MORE BUZZFEED: … source FacebookTwitterredditPinterest Prev Article Next Article Related Posts People Try Holiday Cocktails January 8, 2016 Beta Funny • Quinta Brunson, Ep. 1 October 16, 2016 Things Athletes Do That’d Be Creepy If You Did Them April 28, 2017 See gorgeous photos of the ranch this couple donated to help people with PTSD. October 29, 2016 Good news: The graduation gap between students based on race is shrinking. October 18, 2016 Go exploring with Outdoor Afro, the group helping black people get back to nature. November 29, 2016 20 Comments Victoria S June 21, 2016 I don't like the idea that she was trying to make her son wear a tutu … I wouldn't like it if someone was trying to force there daughter to wear a tutu either.. operaqueen guddi June 21, 2016 baba… in India basically means dad. that's how I call my father Bass Canon June 21, 2016 They're just forcing him to be gay or transsexual because they want attention. Avenged Angel June 21, 2016 wtf man, u shouldnt try to make ur son gay just because ur not straight….. uhg people these days funny bone June 21, 2016 Just like how there is nothing wrong with being gay, there is nothing wrong with being straight. I don't see a reason why they should deny the baby of all the books and etc. portraying gender in a traditional way. If they truly believe that sexuality is formed by who they are inside, it wouldn't matter what the baby sees and learns while he is growing up. He will find his own identity on his own without his parent's help. Anthony Momo June 21, 2016 It's more about male and female bonding fey June 21, 2016 I love this. Two parents doing the best they can to raise an empathetic and accepting child. YankeeNationalist June 21, 2016 This is child abuse. Thatguy VLAD June 21, 2016 that child is going to end up fucked up Alex C June 21, 2016 Poor child. He is going to grow up to be very weird and confused. This is fucked up. Stewart Hunkler June 21, 2016 Hey, lets validate our own sexuality, by experimenting on a young boy. Because gender is like making dinner, just throw whatever you want in there, doesn't matter, it's allll gooood. Incredible. "I can teach him how to throw a ball" (snotty woman voiceehhhh…what are you talking about" Can you teach him how to be a man? Noooooo. Just Like Clockwork June 21, 2016 I was hesitant to watch this but it was i my recommended for a while and like OMG I understand what you are trying to accomplish but no this is not how you do it. Let him get what toys he wants and dress him in neutral clothing. Tell him to be respectful of everyone but like a little much here. John Doe June 21, 2016 I get that we're progressing in our sexuality but when I disagree with the part where she flat out refuses to say "Girl or boy" and just classifies them as "child". I mean okay, I GET IT, but let's not all of a sudden tear down genders completely just because YOU don't classify yourself as a single gender or whatever. This is just plain forcing beliefs on another child, you're no different than the rest of us. 007Waffleman June 21, 2016 How can you say gender doesn't matter, but then FORCE HIM INTO A TUTU because you know he's male and want to "queer" him? Courtney Thewis June 21, 2016 Relationship goals for real!!! You guys are awesome! nicki 1358 June 21, 2016 Ok this confuses me… So she is a non gender confirming person…. Yet she's into sports, acts like a dude, wear male clothes and wants to be called "baba" which is a fathers name?? Enlighten me someone. (Seriously not arguing just confused as to how this non gender thing work) Anna/Alyx Zombiekin June 21, 2016 Reading these comments make me sad, like seriously stop being such dicks to wonderful parents! Becca Moses June 21, 2016 Y'all are intentionally misunderstanding the point of this video. Both of them are talking about trying to celebrate his gender while not making it seem like he has to remain stagnant. seabury June 21, 2016 Wait….you guys are the XoJane couple!!!! I can't believe I've been reading about your journey for so long, yet somehow it took me half the video to realize who I was watching. Jon R June 21, 2016 The thing with raising a child gender-neutral: you're not actually raising it gender neutral. Gender neutral clothing, activities, etc, are well within the sphere of masculinity. You're better of raising your child "gender informed" than "gender neutral".